Quote Originally Posted by cannabis=freedom
Birdgirl, I absolutely agree that anyone who stays in an abusive relationship or who has sex with people whom they do not like at all definitely has issues....having said that, though, a young man or woman who has sex with a great number of people whom they like (on however superficial of a level) and who is treated well...what's the harm, really? Youth is a time where commitment isn't necessarily a must, right?
To your question above, Cannabis=Freedom, I don't see any harm in that at all, either. I think the bed-hopping when people do it for reasons other than physical pleasure (like sexual compulsiveness or looking for love that they didn't receive someplace else) is when the low self-esteem issue factors in. If they do it for fun and because they happen to like their partners and enjoy sex, then I'm all for that, too. People definitely need to sow their wild oats when they're young and before they're committed.
birdgirl73 Reviewed by birdgirl73 on . Why is promiscuity associated with low self-esteem? That's bullshit. I always hear this about how anyone, male or female (but most often female), don't think anything of themselves if they have a lot of sex. Have you ever thought that maybe they're really horny, and that sex is something that is there to be enjoyed? That's like saying a weed-smoker has a low opinion of himself...while we all know that MOST tokers do so just because it's so damn fun to get high! Now, I'm not saying every promiscious person is free from these problems, but I Rating: 5