I'm not sure I buy into the whole "we're wired that way" concept. When did we get rewired? I'm in NO way a follower of the bible, but I did have to study the damned thing as a kid, and I do remember asking once, why the bible had so many stories of a man and his wife and concubines?? WTF!! Swingers so to speak...I got railed in the head for that observation!

Our sex drive is to build population, the more of us squirming around, the better the chances of survival become. This Earth has so far as man is concerned has endured about 5-6 total wipe outs of life on Earth. Each time we come back in stronger numbers, and smarter, due to the tiny few that are survivors, as they had to smart to live, they had to push out into different foods, different enviroments, and they had to travel to always search for food. Tool creation came about this way, hell IMHO, almost all came about this way, simple Eveloution. Cataclysm, then a few survivors, huge sex drive, more people.
I think it's the creation of modern man and his desire to live with one mate and only one mate, as the created religious nonsense, which is simply job creation, or a way of someone to do nothing, while professing to be a prophet, sage, wiseman, oracle, that has some insight, some power, that ONLY THEY POSESS, so of course it's a blessing from God, so you should be wary, live the right way, our way, and all else is wrong if you dont.
Most psychologist, simple tell you your fucked up, to keep their job. Just like most MJ nonsense is constantly pushed by the scum and villiany that is on the payroll of public funds, or fleeceing the taxpayer, for THEIR good.
Sure some folks do have personal issues, and a good psychologist, may help you to deal with them in your life, but to tell a high libido person they are doing something wrong is just not right to me. They need to find other like minded folks to be with. Unless they truly dont wish to engage in those activities, they then need to channel into something else or lead to another path.
I just dont see it as a big deal.