When they tell her to think of it as "it could always be worse", that's advice. Things like that can get people out of ruts they might be stuck in. A lot of it is how you feel, its just a way to look at things differently. I might work, it might not, but you can't say if you're not the person who would be taking advice. Just to think about it, no hostility here.

Sorry things are going so shitty for you. Try and keep your head up the best you can.

Whenever I'm in a shitty situation, I try and shrug it off. Things are the way they and I can't change it so I just deal with it. Of course I'll feel down, but I find if you look at things optimistically, you move past them faster and save a lot of stress. If you can, try it.

Try and sit back and just relax for an hour or two, just let your mind and soul think. Listen to some music, do some exercise, do something where you can just mentally unwind. After you've cleared your head, just try and think of what things you have to take care of, like figuring out where you're gonna stay, temporary first, or if you need to get a job or something. Just give yourself a plan. Take it easy and one step at a time. Fix your situation. I think if you get settled again and have all this cleared up you can move on and put it behind you.

Some optimism for start, just think that times like these you can really see who pulls through for you and who's there for you. These are the people that are true friends and you should never take these people for granted. This will help you see that. It will really make your relationship with these people stronger. Trust me this will make you happier. Just seeing these people should lighten your heart.