gays are the same as anybody, if you feel they are harassing you sexually then tell them where to get off. those are called trolls in the gay neck of the woods. even in a leather bar full of hot naked sweaty men, it is not ok too persist where you are not wanted. this happened once and all i had to do was tell the bartender about the troll in the bathroom, and he was escorted out the door. serious. there is a line between funning around and being obnoxious. lol, we try to keep our atmosphere as clean as possible too. it is not anti gay to say that you do not want to get somebody off! we will protect each other.