Fine with gays but dislike flamers: wrong?

[mesoto]

I had a drag queen friend once, and he disliked prissy guys too. When he was "he" he was just one of the guys, but when he was "she" she was an outgoing girl unless you knew better. He had a lot of stress from not knowing who he wanted to be.
Just so you know the other side.

On Topic; I was kind of intimidated being around Kiki La Rouge, his drag name, and am also uncomfortable around most drag queens. I dislike "fairies" and avoid them, though I don't really care how they choose to live.

mesoto Reviewed by mesoto on 06-24-2007. Fine with gays but dislike flamers: wrong? I'm completely tolerant of homosexuality, and I have no problem at all if a guy just happens to be attracted to other men. However, I've found that flamers annoy me. If you're gay, there's no reason you have to make a big deal out of it and be a limp-wristed fruitcake who talks in a high-pitched voice. I mean, homosexuality doesn't vanquish your testicles, so your voice should still be deep, right? Most gay men are ordinary people who go to work, wear a suit, and don't make a thing of Rating: 5

[jdub61]

i am kinda weird when it comes to homosexuality.

if we're talking about homosexuality in political terms, then i fully believe that a man has the right to marry a man (and the same for two women) and i think that whatever two men do in the privacy of their own home is their own fucking business and that the government should fuck off and never tell a homosexual person what to do

if we're talking about homosexuality in mental terms, i think that most homosexuals really don't have control over it, that they don't "choose" to be gay, just that the other sex doesn't "put it up" for them

but if we're talking about what if a gay person is standing right next to me, then i have to admit that i'd be creeped the fuck out. on a personal level, i find gay men to be utterly repulsive. i'm not open or vocal about it, but i definitely think it's not natural and i disagree with it.

[geonagual]

people are people and everyone is original in their own way...

[cannabis=freedom]

Yeah, maybe they can't help it, but whatever the reasoning, the bottom line is that I can't help that it annoys the shit out of me. If you're gay, that's cool, but if you prance around I just think "man, that's not how a man's supposed to be..."

[psteve]

"man, that's not how a man's supposed to be..."

That's how straight people see your cannabis use.
They're wrong.
Don't fear gay people. they are just like us. Cannabis users can learn a lot from the gay community.

[geonagual]

Yeah, maybe they can't help it, but whatever the reasoning, the bottom line is that I can't help that it annoys the shit out of me. If you're gay, that's cool, but if you prance around I just think "man, that's not how a man's supposed to be..."

So, face it, your a hater towards gay men that act feminine (very)..whatever,,seems like everyone has to hate some group of people..congrats..your now apart of the herd..how does it feel?

[cannabis=freedom]

So, face it, your a hater towards gay men that act feminine (very)..whatever,,seems like everyone has to hate some group of people..congrats..your now apart of the herd..how does it feel?

I don't HATE them...I'm sure a great many people irritate you without you outright hating them, which I think is a very strong word. And, however preachy some pretentious dude gets about how everyone's the same, everyone just has to face the fact that some people are just annoying.

And yes, I don't think a gay man should act feminine. If all gay men just acted normal, there wouldn't be these negative stereotypes of them; the queens ruin it for the normal guys. I have a friend who's gay but doesn't flaunt it, and he gets irritated by this, too.

[geonagual]

[quote=cannabis=freedom] some people are just annoying.

[QUOTE]


yes they are...but I take everyone on a individual basis...never prejudge anyone...you will be surprised and sometimes not so surprised..but it all comes down to people are people and you have no control over that and by no means should it affect who you are and what you feel..cause they are taking your power and you should never let that happen :hippy:

[cannabis=freedom]

[quote=geonagual][quote=cannabis=freedom] some people are just annoying.

yes they are...but I take everyone on a individual basis...never prejudge anyone...you will be surprised and sometimes not so surprised..but it all comes down to people are people and you have no control over that and by no means should it affect who you are and what you feel..cause they are taking your power and you should never let that happen :hippy:

I agree with that...I've no doubt there are some guys who I won't mind....guys like Stanford on Sex and the City: very obvious and quite dramatic, but a good shit...I just haven't happened to meet any yet, but I'm sure I will. I hope so, anyway.

[cheeto]

dude!!! you arew so damn right! im a big homo (seriously) but im just a dude, an averige dude, who happens to get hard from seeing guys instead of chicks.

those flamers, they dont just make me go soft from just hearing them freaking speak, but every time i meet one i get the bubbling urge to punch them.

(that being said, im not a hater, alls good!)