No man should ever make his woman feel bad about the way her body works. You are a beautiful young woman. If your man ever has a problem with you in bed, and wont try to work it out with you, tell him to screw himself for a while. If that doesn't shut him up and make him perform then he's got issues with communication and compromise, and might make a good partner at times, but not a good man for you. A man should make his woman proud of herself and proud of him as well.