In My Opinion
Some men think that liking a females body makes them "peverted pigs" so they deny that they look and think that liking(without touching) the ass or breats is "wrong".
No, it makes you human. It might help putting up a front that you care more about "her insides" but every respectable man cares about the feelings and emotions rather than the "looks". It's just that the body is the first thing we see, then we get to know you and then.........etc. etc.
I'm just going on a long shot here, I think girls like respectful attention. They do get sexy for a reason. They just hate the assholes who can't control themselves.

Respect them, but show them the attention they deserve.
All my ex's knew I appreciated their body but they knew I was with them for "them", not their ass or breasts.