hey guys a little help PLEASE

[geonagual]

I am with you on that..
I could be over her in less than a week if I was betrayed. LOL

[GraziLovesMary]

Right? She did me a favor big time! Made it real easy on me lol

[Reefer Rogue]

I feel for you bro, i've been going out with my current g/f for 2 months 2day actually. We were supposed to chill, but she txts me saying she can't and gives no reason.. I can feel the breakup coming, it whether i try and stick it out for her hotness and accept her break up on me. Or take initiative and just dump her. I did this before and ended up regretting it later, which is why i'm leaning to letting her do it. However, she's been pissin me off lately, she's so damn quiet and prude. It's like talking to a dumb brick wall some times. Anyway your rant made me rant lol.

[2600HERTZ]

I think it is important to give it time and use that time to reflect on the thigns that went wrong and what qualities you do or do not like about the person you wee just with.

Use it as a learning experience and dont try to force it away. Because it could lead to learning enough that your net relationship ends up being the one.

[mesoto]

Maybe I'm insensitive, but things like this seem kind of stupid to me. While it works, go for it. When it doesn't, move on. Regret never got anyone anywhere. You learn the lessons life teaches you so you can use them next time. And there's always a next time.

[az666]

The hardest, but most effective way to get over someone is to completely erase them from your life. I hate to say it but that's what I've learned. I'm sorry hon, I know it hurts

I have had to do that aswell, it is really hard but it was the only way I was going to be able to cope with the way I was feeling.

Then on the other hand I have split up with guys and remained very good friends. I still like them, I found the hard part was coming to terms with the fact that you won't be able to have anything other than close friendship. But we know each other really well, there is still the trust there.

I guess it really depends on your situation.
If you remain friends and things are out of control in your head then I suggest you take a little break from each other, maybe go on holiday for a week or something.

Sorry to hear of your situation. Best of luck.