I have to opposite problem, I get hit on all the time by chicks. I am gay however. I have no clue. However to comment on what GarziLovesMary said previously........."Gay men are the same as straight men in that respect, the only difference being, they actually have romantic feelings of love attached as well." That isn't always the case. Alot of my friends are guys, mostly straight. Just because you are gay doesn't mean that you have romantic feelings for all guys lol. As for hitting on guys that are not gay that is a matter of respect. I would never cross that line with anyone.