Quote Originally Posted by thcbongman
I had a strange realization last night. I was at a concert, and I overheard some chick that kept eyeing me saying "why isn't this guy hitting on me. Tall, handsome, he must be gay." I look around and realized I was the only tall dude around. At that moment, I recollected moments in the past when I was questioned about being gay.

Then I asked a couple of my female co-workers if I gave off a gay vibe. They said I sorta did, they labeled it "metrosexual." WTF? If I didn't have to dress-up at work, I'd be wearing t-shirt and jeans. One of them says how I carry myself hints of gayness.

That's when I realized, everyone but close family and friends thinks I'm gay. That's just messed up. I don't even do anything that resembles gayness in my opinion. So I maybe shy, and don't approach chicks very often, but that doesn't mean I'm gay! Man, I don't even know what to do!
Why didn't you hit on her? It's natural for older men to question their sexuality but just look at the reality of it bong man. Where are the women in your life?