my dad would be the one to change my moms thinkin because she was like this up till i was maybe 5-6, then i just got corrupted, and went off with my older cousins just chilling.......i'd hate if my parents were like that though, parents just gotta chillout, give your child the correct knowledge that youve gained through experience, so when they experience the shyt you've experienced, they can handle themselves in a correct manner............and not make stupid decisions.........