Sorry but all of that seems pretty weak.
1 - There may be power in weakness and it is only through weakness that you may gain that specific power. The "strong" are not as strong as you seem to think and that itself is an illusion.
2 - Being open to giving up your strenth will expand it much more quickly than using it.
3 - ..3 is just wrong.
..meh i dont feel like doing all of them.