69 can be fun, I don't think it's meant for any intense pleasure, especially not both people at the same time, but it's still kinda nice pleasuring each other at the same time.

But yeah, teasing is something that (from what I hear) most guys miss. I think teasing a woman is even more important than anything. I like joking about it too, and saying something like "I dunno if you deserve it" all while dancing around her erogenous zones. When they finally get something, they love it :P