Quote Originally Posted by birdgirl73
I hate to tell you this, Lags, but every woman is different in what she likes and doesn't, as far as oral and manual technique is concerned. That's why all the detailed advice makes us girls double-over laughing (I'm taking into account the marvelously humorous comments I've gotten behind the scenes here, too). If a guy's not relying on his lady of the moment to communicate to him her own unique likes and dislikes, he's expending a lot of effort for nothing. The best lovers let their individual partners be their guides.
That is most absolutely true, and Im glad you pointed that out. I was kind of hesitant to begin talking about reading body language as I often end up going way off into tangents on that subject... it truly is something that you can only get so much out of instruction. To get the full effect you have to try different things out and begin making mental notes of the different responses from your partner due to whatever youre doing at the time. That is the beauty of intimate relationships: it allows people to get to know another person in a deeper sense.. the body language, vocal inflection, tone and pitch variations... deep guttural moans are my favorite hehe...

Anywhoo like you said not everything works for everybody. But these techniques have been employed numerous times by myself and by other people always with pleasing results Although I would love to meet the girl that says she cant cum. Im not saying theyre not out there, I KNOW they are... Im just sayin..... I wanna meet em