Advanced Cunnilingus Techniques

[GraziLovesMary]

So I figured since theres a sexuality forum, why not have a damn topic on my all time favorite thing to do!!!

This is for everybody to throw their own :twocents: in... Whether you partake in the activity, or the activity partakes in you lol it doesnt matter.

Ill start off with a personal favorite of mine, and its a double-whammy. Two in one:

The Standing 69

The man and woman face each other naked (obviously!) to start off with. Guys trying this for the first time and are unsure of themselves might want to have their backs near a wall, or even better a support pole or post.

The man starts by placing his right hand on the womans right hip, and his left on her left so that his arms are crossed. In one motion he picks her up, spins her around, and rests the tops of her legs upon his shoulders. Ladies that keep their legs at a 90 deg. angle are less likely to get dropped lol.

The couple then proceed to 69 for as long as the upside down female desires.

When the blood-rush to her head is too much, she taps the man on the ass or legs or whatever signal they decide.

The next step here is to sit her down on top of your shoulders, only facing the opposite direction as you, so that naturally you can proceed to eat, and there are two ways of doing it.

The more impressive way would be to flip her around, have her grab your neck, put your arms under her legs and then hoist her up to sit on your shoulders to finish the job. The other way would be to set her down real quick so she can jump up for you to grab underneath her legs. Either way its the same concept. From here, you just continue to eat until she is done


Feel free to post any techniques you have either tried, or have had done to you.

GraziLovesMary Reviewed by GraziLovesMary on 06-07-2007. Advanced Cunnilingus Techniques So I figured since theres a sexuality forum, why not have a damn topic on my all time favorite thing to do!!! This is for everybody to throw their own :twocents: in... Whether you partake in the activity, or the activity partakes in you lol it doesnt matter. Ill start off with a personal favorite of mine, and its a double-whammy. Two in one: The Standing 69 The man and woman face each other naked (obviously!) to start off with. Guys trying this for the first time and are unsure Rating: 5

[OniEhtRedrum781]

lol nice stuff :jointsmile::thumbsup:

[GraziLovesMary]

The Triple Play is another one of my favorites, and more importantly, HER favorites. In fact, it quickly became the standard practice once she got over the initial shock.

Now many women might be a little iffy on it as it employs the use of a thumb up the ass, but allow me to ease a few minds: My last girlfriend was extremely against anything happening near that area. She has a complex on it due to a previous boyfriend forcefully violating her back there, so it is very very understandable. After she began trusting me enough to talk about it with me, I was able to sooth her fears and assure her my thumb wouldnt go past the first knuckle, and it wasnt for me... trust me. So she let me try it and HOLY FUCK you shoulda seen the look on my face the next time I went to eat her and she nervously asked for my thumb It was hot lol. But I digress:

Begin your usual way, for me it begins by generalized large-area touching and caressing, slowly or even quickly working my way to the vagina. I then proceed to tongue-fuck her for a couple seconds and really make sure the whole area gets nice and wet. Then I move to the clit. I always start by circling the clit with my tongue because as you ladies know, that little guy can be pretty sensitive at first! After about 30 seconds of going around clockwise and counterclockwise Ill lick the clitoris with about medium strength over the hood to test its sensitivity, if it looks good from here, Ill pull the hood back and lightly begin licking the clit. If its still too sensitive Ill do another round of circles, or maybe just do slower intervals between the licking until she becomes acclimated.

When the clit is primed and ready for full throttle action, I insert my index finger inside the vagina and get everything real juicy while still working on the clitoris with my tongue; making sure to maintain a steady, constant rythym with your tongue is very important. When everything is juiced up and ready to go, then I lubricate my thumb. Just the tip is all thats needed... I usually get it wet with the natural juices, then use saliva to really drench it.

Then, while Im still going with my index and tongue, I begin lighty massaging all around the asshole with my thumb, rubbing it across and whatnot. A little more saliva for lubrication, and then I sloooowwwlly slide the tip of the thumb inside. I might have to point out that the thumb and index finger being used are both on the same hand. Im right handed so I use that hand. You dont want to shove your thumb up her ass, and you arent trying to thumb fuck her. All you really need to do is lighty, just barely, move your thumb around in a circle.. not going all wild.. there are thousands upon thousands of nerve endings right on the sphincter muscle and all youre trying to do is LIGHTLY stimulate those. The index finger can either remain still, or if you have the dexterity to lightly rotate your thumb while accurately controlling the speed and depth of a thrusting index finger, all while remaining constant with your tongue... then go for it. I know I do.

If you are having trouble keeping the clitoral hood pulled back due to all the juices going around making it slippery, then try this favored technique:

Use your top lip to begin pushing the hood back, and forming a seal around the clitoris, gently(unless she tells you to suck harder lol) begin sucking constantly. While you are sucking, continue to maintain the tonguing motion. If you use this method with the Triple Play, she will cum EVEN HARDER. The first time my ex came via the Triple Play she was cumming for about 15-20 seconds. And by that I mean nearly 20 seconds of wild convulsing and screaming at the top of her lungs. I think I might have even been so turned on that I came myself... that shit was WILDLY hot.

OH-- VERY IMPORTANT!! I forgot to mention, that you need to slowly pull your thumb out right while shes coming for maximum effect. Sorta like with anal beads I guess.



Remember guys (and some girls! )... its all for pleasure, so just relax and enjoy it, and for Gods sake... make sure SHES relax and enjoying herself too!


Also, the tongue is very expressive... long raspy tongue licks with a flattened tongue, hard fast flicks... they all have different effects on different women. Try everything out and see what she likes the most!

HAPPY EATING!

[couch-potato]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ + Rep:thumbsup:

[GraziLovesMary]

hehe thanks for the positive response peeps.. anybody else have any good techniques?? Any small nuance in the art that you have noticed.. any realization could potentially save another mans sex life lol. Honestly though... youd be surprised at some of the cases Ive seen and stories Ive heard.

[birdgirl73]

Grazil, you certainly do seem to have a vast amount of expertise and advice for one so young. I keep finding myself wondering why you're spending so much time here instead of getting out there and bestowing your talents upon the millions and million of lucky women whose lives might be transformed as a result. . . .

[Lido]

Grazil, you certainly do seem to have a vast amount of expertise and advice for one so young. I keep finding myself wondering why you're spending so much time here instead of getting out there and bestowing your talents upon the millions and million of lucky women whose lives might be transformed as a result. . . .

ROFLMAO!!!

[lagstronaut]

Grazi, i'm totally saving that shit onto my desktop

WORD BROTHA

[birdgirl73]

I hate to tell you this, Lags, but every woman is different in what she likes and doesn't, as far as oral and manual technique is concerned. That's why all the detailed advice makes us girls double-over laughing (I'm taking into account the marvelously humorous comments I've gotten behind the scenes here, too). If a guy's not relying on his lady of the moment to communicate to him her own unique likes and dislikes, he's expending a lot of effort for nothing. The best lovers let their individual partners be their guides.

[GraziLovesMary]

I hate to tell you this, Lags, but every woman is different in what she likes and doesn't, as far as oral and manual technique is concerned. That's why all the detailed advice makes us girls double-over laughing (I'm taking into account the marvelously humorous comments I've gotten behind the scenes here, too). If a guy's not relying on his lady of the moment to communicate to him her own unique likes and dislikes, he's expending a lot of effort for nothing. The best lovers let their individual partners be their guides.

That is most absolutely true, and Im glad you pointed that out. I was kind of hesitant to begin talking about reading body language as I often end up going way off into tangents on that subject... it truly is something that you can only get so much out of instruction. To get the full effect you have to try different things out and begin making mental notes of the different responses from your partner due to whatever youre doing at the time. That is the beauty of intimate relationships: it allows people to get to know another person in a deeper sense.. the body language, vocal inflection, tone and pitch variations... deep guttural moans are my favorite hehe...

Anywhoo like you said not everything works for everybody. But these techniques have been employed numerous times by myself and by other people always with pleasing results Although I would love to meet the girl that says she cant cum. Im not saying theyre not out there, I KNOW they are... Im just sayin..... I wanna meet em