Advanced Cunnilingus Techniques

[Hardcore Newbie]

I usually don't go down on women anymore because they can't reciprocate very well, at least the ones I've been with. And yeah, I tell them what to do if they aren't "getting it" and they just keep on doing their thing.

"Hey, watch the teeth please?"
"Watch your teeth, they're hurting me"
"Get out"

I bled once from a bad BJ, too bad for her, she was the sweetest tasting girl I'd ever been with. If she knew how to give head we'd probably be 69ing it forever.

[crazyape]

... just don't always be on the clito... because if you do that she,s gonna be too excited to have and an orgasm if you know what i mean, you have to change the point you stimulate when you do cuni :twocents:
oh and the look, like when a girl blowing a guy, is very important... for me i think so

[GraziLovesMary]

I definitely will humor you, Grazil! I actually find you highly entertaining. You're refreshingly intelligent and wonderfully verbal and articulate. I was just giving you a hard time!

You're about to enter the military, hun? Some branch of the U.S. Armed Forces?

Why thankya kindly ma'am... Lol well yeah its about the only choice I have left as far as what I can allow myself to do and at least half-ass care about it. At least they can pay for my college. I took the ASVAB to get into the Air Force and I qualified for every job they offered (without having a bachelors degree. If I had one of those I would have qualified for everything) But I can go right into Nuclear Weapons if I wanted to but Id rather get my fingers into the U.S. Space Program because if things go the way I want them to then everything will work for the better. Im not sure what Im gonna do... I really have alot of choices that have been presented to me within the past half a year or more... Its alot to sort out but when the time comes to make the decisions I will make the right ones. I just kinda roll with the flow.. the undercurrent of ..... destiny??? LOL fuckifiknow.... I just watched Tenacious D and the Pick of Destiny... maybe thats where I got that word from... maybe Im just completely drunk and high and typing too much of my inner monologue because Im... well smashed and at... I think one of my friends houses typing on his computer while hes passed out... damn... Im going to bed.

[GraziLovesMary]

I dunno if I want to do gymnastics to get oral. Dont get me wrong, I love switching stuff up but I have a feeling id be thinking, "god damn I hope I dont fall" rather than enjoying the experience.

Well yeah thats a good point youre right, these techniques arent for everybody... My ex knew I wouldnt drop her and she was a damn squirmer... thats kind of an understatement. Anyways the point is no matter how much she twisted and went crazy it didnt fuck with me... so as long as you have decent balance youre ok I guess. But then I can see it possibly being a matter of trust... hmmm.... I need more time to ponder upon everthing that has transpired.... damn......

[GraziLovesMary]

See people??? This is why I started this thread... when a multitude of different perspectives from all ages and walks of life shed their honest opinions, everybody can have fun.

Deal lord I started this post about 6 hours ago.. I need to get some sleep lol. its nust lol.

[FakeBoobsRule]

I've done standing 69 many times but I will do it just for a very short period of time and only once in a while. The main reason why I don't like standing 69 is that you have now strangled her clit of valuble blood supply. A woman's clit will receive more blood flow when excited and this helps increase arousal and sensation. When you have her upside down her heart is now below her vagina by a good 18 inches and now the blood has to fight gravity to get to the pubic region and gravity is now causing the blood to rush to the head and upper body. Yeah some girls will like the head rush but in the end you are being counterproductive to causing her to have multiple orgasms. Besides, most girls have trouble performing oral on me to begin with much less upside down.


Also, during oral sex I like to pay attention to more than just her clit and vagina. There are some many erogenous zones on a female! With my hands busy holding her up, this becomes difficult to use them.

[birdgirl73]

Good old 69--and this is true of all the women I know with whom I've discussed this subject--is not all it's cracked up to be. Sounds good in theory and seems rather exotic because it's supposedly two-way pleasure. But it's not nearly as pleasurable as taking turns and my doing him and then him doing me. With 69, you have to try and concentrate on two things at a time, my pleasure and his. And it ends up being a terrible distraction both ways. If I'm trying to provide and receive oral pleasure at the same time, I can't lie back and just enjoy the sensation and focus my mind and energy on "cresting the peak." Same with him. He's trying to enjoy what I'm doing to him and yet has to split his focus to do me. If you ask me, it's only fun in theory. One at a time with the entire focus on one partner and then another is a much more sure-fire way to have fun. For a long time I thought I was the only one who felt this way, and one night at a party after a bunch of friends and I had had too much wine, we all discovered everyone thought the same thing.

[VaporDaddy]

I thought what this thread needs is some advice for beginners, since there are probly quite a few on these boards.
First, forget the upside down shit. Forget it.
2. Learn where the clitoris is and master it. This doesn't mean lick it as hard and as fast as you can! Women need different stimuli than men! (read that again!) Think slow and soft and repetitious and when you think you're going as slow and soft as you can, slow down some more.
3. Let her tell you what she wants. I don't mean in words, most women won't say what they want and that's okay. Watch for signs that what you are doing feels good to her ( or doesn't) watch for thrusting, pressure against your mouth or hand. Listen for breathing changes and moans or wimpers. Is her vagina getting wetter? Is her clitoris erect?
4.Don't just go down off the start. Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay! The longer you kiss and tease and caress the better you'll be in the end! Make love to her body parts before you make love to her. I've given my wife an orgasm kissing the back of her knee.
Have fun and good luck!

[Hardcore Newbie]

69 can be fun, I don't think it's meant for any intense pleasure, especially not both people at the same time, but it's still kinda nice pleasuring each other at the same time.

But yeah, teasing is something that (from what I hear) most guys miss. I think teasing a woman is even more important than anything. I like joking about it too, and saying something like "I dunno if you deserve it" all while dancing around her erogenous zones. When they finally get something, they love it :P

[GraziLovesMary]

hehehe... I love all the different opinions, its great. As far as this thread needing beginner advice, go for it lol but the thread IS titled "Advanced Cunnilingus Techniques." lol I dont care either way, the more the merrier.

I think its interesting how different people have many different ideas on what 69ing should consist of, as far as how long, the end result, what it leads to, etc... I personally dont 69 to cum. Hell.. It takes long enough for me to cum just from straight oral... its all foreplay to me. Depending on how experienced the girl is, she usually forgets about my dick anyways when I get going, and I couldnt care less. To be honest, the biggest reason I love the 69 is because I love the different approach I have to the vagina. It allows me to attack from a different perspective. Plus, from that angle I can get the most of out of my tongue as far as length is concerned if you know what I mean. 69ing for me usually only lasts 3-10 minutes. Once she cums then the fucking begins. And when it starts off with a 69, its gonna lead to some good ol fuckin, not love-making. Love making starts off with lots of foreplay, teasing, touching, carressing.. and letting her lay back and relax while you start things off for her with a nice orgasm.

Oh and to the gentleman who made the very valid point about reduced blood flow to the clitoris, you are correct. Thats why I said I only usually keep em upside down for 10-30 seconds max. Its more or less geared towards raising the energy and excitement levels between the two of you, than towards actual direct stimuli. I only do it once in a while when Im horny as shit, I have hours and hours to kill and too much adrenaline pumping. Also, you should know that when you flip them right side up again and go to town quickly, that blood rush back down there will blow their mind. At least it has to the people Ive done it to.