Ok, I was able to stop by a nursery this morning and they had 20-20-20 in a small tub.... it is green looking moist stuff.... directions call for 1 tablespoon to 1 gallon of water... I added 1 tablespoon to 2 gallons.... and watered my female and the other plants I have on my patio.... hopefully this will help.
I am thankful to you all for your help, suggestions, and support!
Thanks much
Serp