This is one my #1 arguments about god.

4) All the good things that happen and I didn't have control of, this geek knows where and who they came from.

You have free will given to you by god. SO if you do somthing bad oh well your going to hell its your fault you didnt repent you had a choice to and you chose wrong. so there you are fucked because somthing bad happened to you but its your fault that these bad things happend to you after all you have free will. But any time somthing good happens its because of god not because of you. Whats that about doesnt sound like a fair god to me. Just taking all crdeit for the good. If there is a god though somewhere im sure thats not how it is thats just how the beings made it on earth.