i have a friend who goes to tulane university in new orleans, and she said that basically every relationship is *not* exclusive, that everybody pretty much hooks up with everybody... of course i've been to their campus before and they have bars with the dancing floors and all *on* their campus, very alcoholic school, so that probably doesn't help. it just shocks me, though, because i go to a "nerd school" which is totally opposite. in any case, i've never cheated and it's definitely a low thing to do.