^^^ i completely agree but for some reason i cant bring myself to saying bye.. i guess im afraid i will be alone, she was their when my mother passed, and that created such a strong bond between us friend wise... and i already have a feeling she is cheating again.. so i just do my own thing, she does her.. ps long distant relationships never ever work.. at least it doesn't work for me, she lives 45 min away not far, but far enough to cause problems..