Dont feel bad, ButtonBasher... you are correct that monogamy is on the decline and faithfulness is being thrown out the window by both sexes. That just means we have to lead by example so that the ladies out there know there are still some real men still on the loose. It sucks, I know, but your coworkers immaturity will only serve to elevate you above them, so just let it roll of your back.

I just ended a nearly 4 year relationship with the girl I swore I was going to marry a few months ago because she wasnt being faithful. I met her through church and everything.. this girl had been in love with me for over a year before I even knew she existed and look how it turned out. Just goes to show you never can tell. All you can do is have faith and LEAP.

Good to see theres more men out there that understand the value of a equally monogamous relationship, and realize that sex with an emotional bond attached to it is so many times more fulfilling than just casual sex.