i have often wondered, do guys usually have a stigma against giving a woman oral sex? my girlfriend seems to indicate she's at least had that experience with her previous boyfriends, but i have no problem with it because i know i can always get her to orgasm through oral sex.

but there is nothing wrong with oral sex before vaginal sex. sometimes i'll go down on my girl for awhile and then have sex with her to finish the deal, other times i'll finish oral sex on her and then have sex with her. after all, you know she'll be "lubed up" and ready by then.