yeah, you need to get back into school. college is girl heaven and will probably solve your problems. when you throw a large number of people together who don't know anything about one another but are keenly interested in learning everything there is to know about everything... sex happens.

i feel that once you hit college, if there's no physical (e.g., sexual) component then the relationship will not last (for example, long-range relationships work like 1% of the time). doesn't have to be full blown sex, but something...

i think the #1 thing that makes the actual asking out a girl successful is confidence. if you look average or better, come off as at least a little charming, and you're confident in yourself... there's no reason for the girl to turn you down. she probably wants to know more about you and she's just looking to have a good time. and just because you ask a girl out on a date doesn't mean yall are in a relationship, either.