I see what looks like a ball BUT only 5 days in, you can give it another couple days... most often male flowers will grow in CLUSTERS while female flowers start SINGLY... I see a single ball... check to see if it is on a little stem or not, and if it shoots out a pair of white hairs within the next 24 hours.
The first pic I do see what looks like a cluster though...
Another thing is, male flowers usually show first, so if it's only 5 days, I'm leaning towards male.