i hear ya, i used to be part of this group, and we did everything. We hung out like every weekend and shit. But we never smoked. Then a few of us started smoking and some people left the group, some people started smoking, then stopped, some people still smoke. Now, i dont have many people to hang out with, when im with them, they either hang out with people i dont like, or i feel uncomfortable around. So i decided, i don't really need to be socializing that much now, i gotta concentrate on my school work.