my old set of friends were the kind of people who had to have everything their way. If something was just a little bit different, they would say it was stupid or retarted. it started to piss me off when they would say things like get a haircut and that i was a dumbass because i was different. And of corse they would say that people were stupid because they just looked like they used they used drugs. if u cant act natural around ur friends you should say fuck em all and find better ones. i am alot happier this way