well in some of friends that leave defense, once people start smoking pot, they (most) seem to talk about it, and talk about how things could be better high and simialar things, and the truth is if u dont do it, u dont wanna hear about it, some of my friends shoot heroin and they talk about it all the time. and i fucking hate it, they let the drug control their life. weed is alot different than heroin, but we still do talk about it. its like having a friend that is a girl, and u and ur friends start talking about cars and cars only all the time, and how and what engine is better, shes gonna hang out with u less because shes not into that. it makes perfect sense. There are friends i talk about weed with, but when the other friends are there, we talk about other things. pretty much all my friends are still my friend and i think thats why because i dont accidentally exclude them from the group by making them feel like outcasts. the only friends i loose are the pot fucks ur life up people and whatever fuck them