youre exactly right man, most people dont give a shit about you or your problems. mainly because you dont give a shit a them and their problems, right? i mean, to be honest, i dont give a shit about you and your problems and dont expect anyone to give a shit about mine. you just gotta suck it up. youre not a girl, so some knight's not gonna come sweep you off youre feet and save you from this horrible nightmare. grab your bootstraps and keep on walkin. this may sound harsh, but you gotta take control of your life. dont let other people be the deciding factor. if there is nothing you feel that you can do to change the situation, then deal with the curent situation as best possible, with a smile.