my mom is one stubborn lady, <-- which lady is me tryin to not be biast being im the one on the wrong side always. u could tell her shes wrong, and the only time shed admit it is if its 100 percent, and then shell try to say it was misinterpreted or w/e. so i no how it is, but it is best to have the talk, avoid it as long as u can resonably do, i dont mean ignore it, but the longer u wait, then u can say i found this yesterday, and that it was the first time in a week u were in that box, so u dont toke up hardly ever, try doin it on a sunday, maybe? is she acting like nothing bad has happened? other than the note cuz play it cool, then try to find the right time, well therell never be the pefect time to do it, but where shes in a good mood, or less angry then normal. ive learned this from my mom finding out i smoked cigs, and that i drank, at a party. but ur in a far worse position then i am.