Jack, I do understand (to some extent) what you're talking about. I find my tolerance growing now that I've smoked for a while. I see life's far from perfect, I also see that you are a good soul, and just how happy you were in the pictures of you with your family, your beuatiful grandson. If someone wants to be like you, then they will have to be kind, forgiving, sharing, a talented gardener and just a little bit silly (hehe). I agree that everyone should be themselves, but It's also nice to see that some appreciate the knowledge you share, and your joy for life.