Hiya Missy...and welcome back!

Sorry to hear that you are getting divorced - no matter what the reason is, it's never a nice thing to go through (especially when kids are involved). I'm going through the same.
I'm sure that the custody thing will be fine, as long as the kids aren't used as 'weapons' (you know )...I guess that remembering not to 'bad-mouth' your ex in front of the kids is always the best policy (no matter how much you want to lol), because in the long run, it will only alienate them from you.

I hope that all goes well, and remember that we are here if you need to vent and stuff

Best wishes,
Res...