How long have you guys been together? Because what you're describing is infatuation, and that doesn't last forever. The sooner you learn that the better.

I read some statistics on divorce a while back. The older you are when you get married, the less likely you are to get divorced, up until you're about 25, when the rates level off. As you get older and you mature, your personalities change, and very well might diverge. I wish you luck, just don't make any long-term plans that would get screwed up if you decide that you don't like each other anymore.

Anyway, my first time was with a cute vietnamese girl i'd known for a few weeks, but we realized we weren't that compatible after a while, and besides, we lived too far apart. I was 22 though, and I had recently got out of a relationship with a very religious girl that gave me blue balls religiously, and I sort of wanted to release that frustration.

But on that same note, my girlfriend right now is a virgin and she wants to lose her virginity to me, and I'm kind of nervous because I've never been first for a girl before. I feel honored, and I want it to be good for her.