virginity

[jdub61]

maybe i just don't understand because i'm a guy... but is it just me or is the entire concept of "virginity" incredibly overblown and overrated?
seriously, what's the big deal? why does society place so much emphasis on it? once you get over the hump (pun NOT intended ) then there's no big deal, and you're in the clear, and you're free...

like, my girlfriend's ma told her right before she went off to college that once she gave up her virginity to a guy that she would have nothing left to give. wtf is this? apparently girls don't have brains and personalities and lives, they're just capsules containing a one-time dose of virginity...

what do some of the ladies think about the issue?
also, do you regret losing it when you did or not? because i feel like most people don't...

jdub61 Reviewed by jdub61 on 05-26-2007. virginity maybe i just don't understand because i'm a guy... but is it just me or is the entire concept of "virginity" incredibly overblown and overrated? seriously, what's the big deal? why does society place so much emphasis on it? once you get over the hump (pun NOT intended :() then there's no big deal, and you're in the clear, and you're free... like, my girlfriend's ma told her right before she went off to college that once she gave up her virginity to a guy that she would have nothing left to Rating: 5

[wannabehippiegirl]

I'm a virgin

[bluntblaze]

i was 13 not long into high school and there was a lot of good looking girls going about.
Anyway i had sex with this 15 year old chick after school and we went to her house and i banged her.

I dont regret it.. I have sex regularly now so i was gonna lose it some time and plus its only sex as... long as im rubberd up and ready to go its all good. Its fun ... Like smoking weed is, just make sure you keep it safe ( i dont want little bluntblazes running about just yet or a diseased wang for that matter) :thumbsup:

[LuckyG]

The only other people Ive had sex with was my friends aunt(rape, lol.. no seriously.. some of you know the story), my last girlfriend, and her best friend. The only one I regret was my friends aunt.

This just seems wierd to me because in a lot of your other posts you give the impression that you're constantly gettin' it on with a lot of different women. I mean, no problems with it, doesn't change my opinion of you (which is a good one :thumbsup but I was just kind of surprised to read that.


Oh, and I don't know if I posted it before but I'm still a virgin as well.

[Veratyr Star]

I was 16

[stinkyattic]

i understand that but i see being under 13 as being a child, some one must understand wot im sayin.. your body hasnt even developed proper at that age!!!

That's all well and good but you need to be more respectful when making that point.
Your wrath is better directed at an older person who has sex with a 13 year old, rather than the child herself, who is not old enough to really understand the finer points of statutory rape.

This thread has been cleaned up, hardcore newbie, thanks for the heads up but I had to remove the post where you quoted Lolly...

[HighTillIDie]

...muahahahahahahahahahah

[Mississippi Steve]

I can't say that I agree with somebody losing their virginity at 13, but its not my body, an I don't have to live with it.

If she is ok with it, then thats a good thing. If she's not ok with it, then thats between her, and GOD.

If she decides to discuss it with *ANYBODY ELSE*, then its up to them to listen, and not be judgemental. if she asks for advice, she isn't looking to be bashed, or approval, she will most likely be looking for a way to deal with it, or at the least, just be able to vent.

[x-Lollypopcicle-x]

i understand that but i see being under 13 as being a child, some one must understand wot im sayin.. your body hasnt even developed proper at that age!!!

[420budtoker420]

wow evryones jumping on rebgirl just cuz she had sex before 13, so what? It doesnt mayyer when it happens, if she says she doesnt regret i,then she doesnt,