I'm gay, im "out" but still I would be horrified if I found out a friend of mine had gone and told people to whom it was no concern. I would seriously be pissed off. There is no need for some people to know. People who are close to you work things out eventually.

You must know what it's like to have feelings you can't control, when you are young you experiment....all you had to do was say you wern't interested and that you don't care if he's gay, but it's not for you.

You should be there for him as a friend if he needs someone to chat to or some help. I hope you sort things out between you.