that's the only thing i don't like about gay-right freedom (again, my best friend is gay) if you choose not to hang out with someone that is obviously attracted to you (so you say, i can't know for sure o.0) you get accused by everyoen of being homophobic...

my best friend has been 'in love' with me for years upon years....

with all that being said, i still hung out with him, he stillw as my best friend, he just had no hope of it progressing, which did cause problems at points... but now he's with someone and has been for like 4 years nearly, and i'm married nad have a kid....

it shouldn't really bother you if he finds you attractive, he can't help that, just when he incestiantly bugs you or crosses the no touching boundry...

but agian, that's your choice to make and you shouldn't be ridiculed... it can be a strain on both people if one is attracted and the other is not... kidna like pouring salt in an open wound...

luckily for us things are 'normal' now and we're just purely bestfriends now...