Quote Originally Posted by not_the_kitty
I would tell him to keep his shit together if he wants to stay with you, the 15 and 20 thing is no biggie tho, my parents are atleast 5 years apart. But if he keeps getting fucked with the law then get rid of him, no one can take care of you from inside of a jail cell, if anything make him join the military, its like jail but atleast you get a gov. check if your married.
It depends when your parents met. And if we're going to go to families about this stuff...my friend's grandparents are FIRST COUSINS. They are...were (before his grandpa died) happily married, had great healthy kids, etc. Does that make it right? Besides, the age difference isn't the same when someone is 15 and 20, then when it's 20 and 25. It's all about proportions and relativity. That's like having a 10 year old get with a 15 year old, you get me? It's less serious the older you get, but at age 15, to be with someone who's 20 (and the guy is 20), chances are you're gonna get used. It's at a critical age in life where guys are at their horniest, they are still in college (or in the age and mindset at least) and just want to party and get laid. Possibly settle down, but that's rare.

My advice is that there will definitely be someone worth your time that won't use you. Hell, I'm 17 years old and I'm still a virgin. I don't think I'm really ugly at all, I'm just not only patient, but have self-respect as well. There are guys that will jump on any opportunity to get laid...to me it's not about getting laid..it's WHO you're getting laid by. is it really worth it to do it with someone you'll regret? If he's a major fellon like that and has been to jail twice and all that, what kind of future do you think he has? What kind of husband do you think he'll be? What kind of father? If he gets you pregnant, how would you deal with it?

It's just not worth it. From your descriptions, sometimes he has sex and makes you leave? Wtf is that he's not showing you the affection you think he is and you're in a dangerous position. Don't let him take over you, he's giving you pleasure, not love. You need to find someone who will love you, even if it means no sex (at least for a while or w/e). You seem smart enough to be able to manage that!

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Till then just keep on tokin' it'll never let you down.
M3nt0R Reviewed by M3nt0R on . I need help. =( I'm in an icky situation, and I don't know what do do anymore. I was best friends with this girl. Her older brother is 20. I hung out with him once or twice before my winter break since we were matching and I was the hook up and all that. She warned me repeatedly not to get involved with him. I told her I would never do that. Plus I'm five years younger, what the hell would he want with me? So the Thursday before winter break started, she told me that he was going to come pick up money to Rating: 5