I need help. =(

[PureEvil760]

... and I ended up having sex with him.

LOL that was so unexpected as I was reading it, I say leave him hes just playin you and there are plenty of affectionate guys..well I think there is just cause I am one..cant be the only one.

[Skink]

Well I was around for the deal with BFA and it did turn into shit... there really is no other outcome but shit... Take here advice and run with it...

I was 35 and I had a 16 year old girl stalk me,,,when she got her license she would be everywhere I turned... This girl was cute and a body many girls would die for... Even tho she was legal,,,I still did not take advantage,,,why??? Because I knew she did not know what she was doing... I bet to myself that she had a father that left and I reminded her of him... I do regret not talking to her and setting her straight,,,but I wanted NO part of it...

Men that seek young girls are afriad of woman their age,,,they feel in control,,,and not threatened by someone inexperienced... Sorry Zeebs,,,but you are basically this guys fool... You say "What would he want with a 15 year old" like he being 20 is a prize,,,wrong thought pattern there :error::error::error:

Just add this to BFA's post,,,I tried to cut to the bone here,,,sorry but you need to wake up...

[TallulahGreen]

Okay, I'm gonna be honest with you.

What are you thinking getting all fucked up and stealing your parents car?

I think you really need to think about the path you are choosing for yourself. Fuck this dude, he will only fuck you over. There are a million women out there who will tell you that we have been in similar situations, and been extremely fucked over.

Take it from me. I was with a 19 year old when I was 15 and we were together for 2 and a half years. He was a fucking loser and I knew it right from the start, yet I felt that I just really wanted to be loved. I know exactly how it feels, and it sucks, a lot. Having a relationship you have to hide from everyone feels REALLY shitty, it makes YOU feel shitty. Not only that, what the hell is a 20 year old doing with a 15 year old anyway? You want to know what my boyfriend did? He cheated on me, A LOT, and I went into denial and just made myself believe it was hunky dory.

Don't go down that path. Go hang out with really good friends and good people and find love that way. Don't go for someone who will drain you of your money and your emotions and whatever else they can.

You ultimatly have the power, and I know it's fucking hard. But you know whats right. Don't go for a felon that has been arrested over 18 times, what the hell dude???? Do you think thats going to get better? He sounds like a sociopath to me, and thats exactly what my ex was, a sociopath/bi polar crazy fuck up, who did a lot of drugs.

I'm not trying to be harsh, I just don't want another girl to end up how I did. It sucked! I ruined relationships with friends and family to be with someone who really didn't give a shit about me, he just wanted me for his emotional crutch. He manipulated me, he used me.

...and you know what? Hes 25 now with an 18 year old girl..and let me tell you..I don't think hes doing much better.

Good luck, I really hope you can get past this. I know it's hard, but be strong , and you will be okay. Just live life moment by moment and appreciate the now and realize you will be alive at the end of the day no matter what.

Sorry if I rambled, I'm hella baked. :hippy:

[Demeter]

Listen to all the good advice zeebo- this creepy dude sounds like the ultimate loser- anyone who associates with him is choosing the gutter. It is so sad how lovely girls with low-self esteem are desperate for someone, anyone to touch them. I was one of those girls, and it pains me to remember how I threw myself away like you are doing. It is truly pathetic to lower oneself. You are so much better than this. You deserve a real man, not that disaster.

Just because a man thinks you are attractive- it doesn't mean he cares. Many men will think you are cute and will be happy to use your body, like a nice slick thing to rub against. But they don't love you, and if you are willing to be used, you will miss the chance to meet someone decent, who will cherish you.

Don't let low self-esteem cause you to throw yourself away. You have a choice to stay away from this low-life. Better things are out there for you. Good luck honey!

[nightlight]

just dont get attatched to him. in the long run you will get fucked over.

[hempplaya]

I think you need to find someone with a future

most definitely. you don't want to end up with someone who has no future and has no way of providing income into the house to help provide for the family do you? You don't want to rely on a say job bringing $30,000 a year in to have to feed your family, buy food, clothing, pay for car, insurance, etc. and take care of 2/3 kids. You're 15 years old, you honestly don't have it as bad as you think you do. Could the reason you think he's giving you what you want be because you're insecure with yourself and feel ashamed of how you look or feel? Trust me looks are not nearly as important as you think they are, it's how you present yourself. From the sounds of it you just think you aren't good enough for anyone else and you are happy with him because he gives you the "attention" you are wanting, or atleast think that's what he's doing. It sounds more like he's using you for sex and nothing more. Don't take it the wrong way as I have never met him but it just seems weird that someone with that kind of a record/history would fall in love with someone whom he knows could land him in jail again. Hope this made some sense.

[hempplaya]

your answer to your problem is in those lines you want a guy who loves you, hes a loser felon whatever and he just wants a girl he can fuck and tell her to leave whenever he feels like it.

that and the age difference is so fucked up a 20 year old dude shouldn't be diddling a 15 year old girl its against the law and i think it counts as sexual abuse in court.

It's actually statutory rape.

[BabyFacedAbortion]

and endangering a minor, amongst other things.