Honey, you're at a low point right now, it WILL pass! Obviously, you are with the wrong person- relationships only survive if there is a flow of positive energy between the two involved. "Feelings of inadequacy" should not be occurring- a good relationship strengthens both people!

Sadly, some people "get off" on destroying others or controlling other's lives to the point of virtual enslavement. Could this lady by one of those? If she is...maybe you'd better run!

Faking your death is a bit melodramatic, doncha think? Just move to another state (or even just another city). Unless this gal is rich and obsessive, she would likely just look for someone else to "play" with. Much easier to find another partner, than to track someone down.

You don't mention kids, so I am assuming that there are none involved. They change everything, of course.

The stuff is just stuff. Very little of it is really worth anything- if a fire came along and burned it all, but you got out, surviving by the skin of your teeth, you'd count yourself as lucky! You'd miss and mourn the stuff for a while, but stuff can be replaced- you can't! Honey, that woman is "burning" your spirit. Is the stuff worth it?

In the meantime, Granny suggests going alone to a secluded open area (park, forest, beach, desert, etc.) with a couple of fatties and sit down and have a LONG, SERIOUS think! What do you want? What do you NEED? And are you getting it?

Take care of your self.- Granny:hippy:
Storm Crow Reviewed by Storm Crow on . I can't stand it anymore. Im done! With love with life with all the bullshit. I just can't take it anymore, the feelings of inadequacy and what not that seem to arise when i talk to a certain someone. I know I shouldn't let a woman dictate my actions but I have no clue what to do. I just want to leave my life and start a new no matter what the cost. It feels like I can't move on with all of these mementos staring me in the face as if they were mocking me. I sometimes want to fake my own death and move to Germany and Rating: 5