Separated chick with kids...date?

[stinkyattic]

My stepfather did a hell of a job raising me and my brother, far better than my father -bless his heart- could have from so far away.

Of course, I suppose this is all moot, as the thread starter seems to have got himself a bannage...

[Dacoldwettanker]

You gtotta think about this dude, she has 3 kids and she probably is looking for some help with them. If you think she is cool continue hangin with her but don't take it to the next level until the husband is outta the picture he might REALLY get pissed if he knew she was with someone else.

[locomark]

Well,

I say tell her you are interested in being her friend but you are not ready for any serious situations. If this woman is intelligent she'll see that her situation will require time to adjust. If she is looking to find a new daddy this month then you'll find yourself trapped feeding them and yourself real soon. So take it real slow and she may show you if she developed in skills in the bed with no stress and no expectation.

Loco

[Nailhead]

Ok lets recap, you are in college, and some girl you met that has kids with a crazy ex is interested in you. WTF are you doing? Come on man, you are in college, don't waste your time with drama like that!

Women with kids usually want a relationship, at first they won't act like it, they'll put their kid on the backburner and act like they are not a big part of their life, but the reality is they are so don't be so naive to think you can just have a relationship with her and not her kids (or crazy ex, since he will most likely be in the relationship whether you want to or not).

It's not a good idea, and if you are in college why are you even thinking about relationships? Stay single and mingle, you are in your prime so don't waste it on one girl! You have plenty of time to have a relationship later on in your life, but right now that is the last thing you should be focusing on.

Seriously, stop thinking with your penis, you gave enough good reasons why this woman is not someone you should be involved with lol But with that said, she sounds hot, any pics? :P

[blackbarbie]

you might not even have to worry so much about the kids. most people are very protective of their children and wouldn't bring just any person around them. i know people with kids who don't even introduce their s/o to their kids unless it's really serious like engagement.

[PureEvil760]

just remember, hotdog in a hallway..the girl can fix that herself if she tries.

[Darth Vapor]

If it's alright with you that she has kids, then great. Go for it.

I, personally, wouldn't date a girl with kids, because I don't have any. It's a real burden on somebody without kids, to all of the sudden, get thrust into a parental role.