I personally love being around kids, I believe they are much closer to God than adults, but thats just me. What it really comes down to in a relationship is whether she has qualities that would make it an endure. It sounds like you fall for the Arabic women just like I do ( I am actually taking Arabic Linguistics in college ) Do what you feel is right tho man, and I wouldn't let the kids play that big of a role in whether or not you will date her. Dating isn't permanent, and like Boxer says time cures all things. The best of luck to ya'