Separated chick with kids...date?

[TheBigOne45]

I have a dilemma. I guess she is interested because she likes to hang out and she calls me and she yelled at me for not saying hi to her today. We have fun when we are together and we smoke together which is great. She is 3 years older than me. She's 1/4 Syrian and I think that makes her more appealing to me because I love Arab looking chicks although she is German too like me. But she is currently separated and has 3 kids.

Do you think I should date her? I am still in college.

TheBigOne45 Reviewed by TheBigOne45 on 05-19-2007. Separated chick with kids...date? I have a dilemma. I guess she is interested because she likes to hang out and she calls me and she yelled at me for not saying hi to her today. We have fun when we are together and we smoke together which is great. She is 3 years older than me. She's 1/4 Syrian and I think that makes her more appealing to me because I love Arab looking chicks although she is German too like me. But she is currently separated and has 3 kids. Do you think I should date her? I am still in college. Rating: 5

[TheBigOne45]

I only met her kids like once. One is like 9 I believe but the others are really little. Her ex threatened to kill her so I'm a little upset about that.

[geonagual]

Yikes! 3 kids...she is probably cool to hang out with, but in the end I am sure she is looking for someone to help take care of those rugrats.
Be careful...

[Ghettopops]

My wife had 2 kids when i started hooking up with her, 8yrs later turned out to be the best decision I have ever made. Take it as it goes you never know.

[halfassedjediknight]

for me particularily it would depend on my financial situation i think..because i love kids and i know i wouldnt mind a bit. i would just want to know i could afford it haha.

[thcbongman]

I'm dating a chick with a kid. Granted, the kid lives with her father in another state. She's really nice and makes me happy, but I wonder what issues she's hiding since the father has the child!

[birdgirl73]

If she's separated instead of actually divorced, that's a sticky situation. Especially if she's already had her estranged spouse threaten to kill her. Considering that, you might give her time to get fully divorced. If he is a violent nut, you could be at risk if you began dating her.

When the time's right, dating sounds harmless enough. But be very careful about getting serious. A young woman with three kids is very likely looking for another husband to help her raise and support them. A built-in family like that is a huge responsibility for someone who's just in college or just about to finish. You might also note that she's clearly pretty fertile, so use birth control!

[xcrispi]

Too many puppies !!!
Peace
Crispi :jointsmile:

[timothylearyisdead]

Hey man I'm only 19 and I'm starting to get really close with an old co-worker of mine who's 24 and has the most adorable little girl. If anything her having kids could bring you guys closer.

[napolitana869]

at least wait until the husband is fully out of the picture. If he finds out shes seeing someone it might make him even angrier.