Quitting

[rebgirl420]

^^ Yeah you and everyone else :wtf:

[Greenport]

im cooler tho... lmfao. keep it real girl.

[friendowl]

this might sting a bit but its for your own good

YOU HAVE NO BALLS
YOUR GIRL WILL EVENTUALLY LOSE RESPECT FOR YOU
ITS CALLED FOOT IN THE DOOR TECHNIQUE

IF I WAS YOU ID STAND UP AND SAY "FUCK THAT"
SHE WILL LIKE YOU MORE IN THE LONG RUN IF YOU
STAND UP FOR YOUR HAPPINESS

[pass_the_dubbie]

Make some firecrackers and give them to your girlfriend...dont say theres weed in it...get her high...make her enjoy it...slowly introduce it. You dont wanna be getting whip cracked over something as beautiful as mary jane

[Tom_Bom]

Sorry man, but if this girl really loved you, she'd accept your smoking for what it is. The fact that shes trying to change you this early on is scary.

Tell her to give you that jar containing your balls back.

[good ol daze]

dude, stand your ground. if you had nothing else to offer except giving up weed, then I could see it. You can be gentleman, treat her like queen, but still toke. It starts with weed (which happens to be something you like)...it's an easy card to play because of the legal issue, but then where does it go? You're letting her tell you what to think and how to act...You seem young, and you're probably loving the sex...no vagina is worth giving up the person you want to be. Others women will do things you can't believe your girlfriend might be doing for you.

And don't cave into that "if you love me, you'd quit" seemingly respectful but actually passive aggressive crap. You're weakening yourself, and it has nothing to do with her.

[Greenport]

i was planning on taking a break. I really dunno if ima quit. Ima talk to her in skool tomorrow about it one more time, and tell her I love her. Shes not a bitch girl, shes just raised different and doesnt beleive that the govt would lie like that. Its a hard concept to relize but once you do, your in the clear.. Ima tell her the truth, I told her today that its a part of me and she told me she doesnt want me to change just cause of her, shes really not making me do it. its my choice to show her that I love her alot... its def not a perminant quit tho, just for now..

[rebgirl420]

Does it hurt? Or does she use vasalene? Im sorry jk hun.

[Acouwaila]

^^ Yeah you and everyone else :wtf:

im not

[good ol daze]

changing yourself is not an act of love for her. It's a change for yourself. Nothing more. Nothing less.

If she was a platonic friend, would you quit...if all the feelings of love, except sex, still were still there? It still sounds to me like she'll withhold unless you quit. Your letting yoursellf be blackmailed.

At very least make it negotiable. Make her quit something you hate in return...junk food?? TV??? Shopping sprees?? Chewing her hair or nails??? I know there's something. I'd be surprised if you didn't find something more "unhealthy" in her as your smoking is.