And can gay people voice their opinions without declaring their homosexuality? If you want to be gay, I'm not going to prosecute you or hurt you, but every time a gay guy is in an argument, he'll start by saying "I'm gay!" and proceed to say what he thinks.

I think it's a pride-issue or a sense of insecurity, but it's always there, and that also bothers me. You don't see me saying "I love women and love vaginal intercourse among most things, but I don't agree with what you're saying.." It's not about being 'normal' it's about hypocricy and pride.