Told my mom i smoke!!

[bunnyc]

Ok i'm soory to say that this story has taken a negative twist:

Since it was a no-school day me and one of my freinds decided to meet up and smoke a joint and then go into paris to buy some clothes.

So i do so,and come back home about 5 hours later(wasn't high at all)With one of my freinds who wasn't high either.This freind of mine doesn't smoke weed on a regular bassis but looks like he's high permanantly.

So he comes by for about 10 mins and then leaves,then my mom kindly asks me if i would like to go eat out and i say "yeah".

So we arrive at the restaurant and my mother says"ohh don't like this restaurant there are to many young people!
I then said quite clearly that that was an extremly stupid thing to say and that she needed to back her opinions up with reasoning.

She out of the blue acted like she was gonna hit me to scare me!
I then said that she had a problem and started raising my voice.

aNYWAY I THEN LET MY MOM AND BROTHER AND FUTURE-STEPFHER EAT BYTHEMSELVES WHILE I WAITED IN THE CAR.
I had then decided (while they had there 2 hour dinner)that i was not going to talk to my mother for a while to teach her to not treat me like she does.

sO WHEN SHE GOT BACK TO THE CAR MY BROTHER STARTED ANOTHER ARGUMENT ONCE AGAIN WHILE I stayed silent,then when there argument calmed down my mom said to me "one thing pot does is give people mood swings" my brother then said"i think you should stop him smoking if he were my son he wouldn't be smoking!" my mom then said"well i'm thinking of doing something about it"I just kept silent and didn't get sucked into the game.

For 1:who is my mom to talk to me about moodswings?
and who's the one changing there minds all the time?
and why did i have to get an asshole big brother that loves arguing?

I'm so angry but i've kept calm the only solution i feel i have is to stop talking to ay of them for quite a while!
any suggestions?*

bunnyc Reviewed by bunnyc on 05-17-2007. Told my mom i smoke!! Ok so the other day we were going over to my grandfathers house to say goodbye to my uncle that came from america,I was extremly sad about saying goodbye because i reall like my uncle(crying...),I hadn't felt shittier for ages. Before i continue you should all know that i have some family problems between my mother and brother... So whe are on are way back,everybody's depressed,and my brother starts getting into a major argument with my mother and actually lightly hits her while she was Rating: 5

[Jimbob1310]

how old are you? these storys you tell make it seem like your 8 years old...

[robert42]

sorry bout ur uncle glad ur moms cool hope all is well

[Inferius]

No offense, but you have a lot of maturing to do, as we all do.

Not talking solves nothing, it just implicates that you aren't mature enough to calmy have a conversation and state your feelings and thoughts in a respectful manner. It's passive agressive bs.

Your parents CREATED YOU. Maybe it's time to think about things ya?

[thecreator]

Im gald you came clean to your Mum. I'm sorry about your uncle and what not but he gave you the ultimate parting gift..............A better more honest relationship with your Mum. Cheers Mate I'm truly happy for you.

[bunnyc]

No offense, but you have a lot of maturing to do, as we all do.

Not talking solves nothing, it just implicates that you aren't mature enough to cal my have a conversation and state your feelings and thoughts in a respectful manner. It's passive aggressive bs.

Your parents CREATED YOU. Maybe it's time to think about things ya?"





True,I have got some maturing to do.
But sometimes i do have a calm and respectful conversation with my mother except that she's gets irritated and angry quite quickly. i don't think most people have a mother that acts like she's going to hit you because you contradicted her opinion.Or am i wrong?
Mate,it's easy to reply in a negative manner when you don't really know what the situation is.

But when it comes to thanking my parents for putting me on earth i say no,because i never asked for them to put me on earth,and for now my life hasn't necessarily been heaven.
My mother and father neglected me when i was younger and the consequences are expected:an angry adolescent.

Not long after my last post my brother came in my room and started throwing fists at me.Is that normal? when i ask him why i get told because i deserved it!
So yes i think i have a general right to be angry with my parents and brother.
Peace and love

[ScarlettCrush]

try this...

next time you say something innocuous and she gets very angry with you, do not react to her anger, ask her WHY she is angry at YOU. She may not realize she is taking things out on you, and anyways it kind of sounds like brother and mother need to be on wellbutrin.

If you outed yourself as a smoker, you have to act twice as cool and grown up as you really are to get them to be ok with it and prove it's ok for you to do. Testify.

[Whos Carl]

They have computers that read things out loud for the visually impaired.

How the fuck does that work in public when reading a cannabis forum? I can just imagine the faces on library staff everywhere.

[stonedblue]

I told my mom a while ago. While I wasn't argueing. I just told her. And its cool with her. I suggest everyone does this. She said it was fine as long as i wasn't getting into drugs that actually hurt you or I become a complete idiot. Now, if i get caught smoking, it won't come as a surprise, and she won't care. I just told her the reasons I smoke and she said it was fine.

Yay!

[slipknotpsycho]

these are the reason i always tell everyoen to just come clean to their parents...

i mean your parents aren't idiots, THEY KNOW... if they don't, then you must've just started.... it's not hard to put two and two together...

more good generally stands from coming clean then bad...

sure they could flip out on you if you tell them, but parents are always flipping out on their kids even if they haven't admitted to it... if you tell 'em, you may just get lucky enough to get a parent like the above, so you don' thave to run around hiding it anymore...