The Users Guide To Females

[birdgirl73]

You've obviously never had anyone know what theyre doing. i've never had a problem given someone an orgasm through any "spot" and there are many.

foreplay is most certainly the "key" to all successes in life.

the thing with me is, i prefer foreplay to sex. it turns me on more knowing she is turned on, than being directly turned on myself. i guess some blokes are just too impatient.

Aeonboom, your confidence is admirable. But Reb knows what she's talking about here, and what she said is true of upwards of 85% of women. I have a strong feeling the ladies in your life have been major fakers, especially if they've told you you've done the trick with a multiple-spot approach and you think "there are many." The bottom line is that there are two "trigger spots." And the one that Rebgirl mentioned works for the greatest majority of us. You might want to do some reading on female sexuality. And revisit the multi-spot approach you've been taking with your women!

[Tokingirl]

Aeonboom, your confidence is admirable. But Reb knows what she's talking about here, and what she said is true of upwards of 85% of women. I have a strong feeling the ladies in your life have been major fakers, especially if they've told you you've done the trick with a multiple-spot approach and you think "there are many." The bottom line is that there are two "trigger spots." And the one that Rebgirl mentioned works for the greatest majority of us. You might want to do some reading on female sexuality. And revisit the multi-spot approach you've been taking with your women!

I think your so wrong there, thats really rude, i'm his girlfriend and i know EXACTLY what he's talking about, dont be so presumptious in the future.

just because you havent found the "right" one yet, or found someone knowing the "right" way to do it doesn't mean other people havent.

*sigh* the arrogance of some people is amasing.

[Aeonboom]

lol birdgirl....seriously...you have no clue about your own body if you only think there are 2 spots.

and i wasnt being harsh towards reb....i was just stating that from personal experience... she's wrong.

and i know when a girl is faking it. theres so many ways to spot a faker....and even more ways to know that they arent.

[birdgirl73]

I've been living in my body for twice as long as you've been alive, Aeon, and I know it well. I've been happily married for 25 years and am a medical student. I've forgotten more about sexuality than you'll ever know, frankly.

I know you weren't being harsh to Rebgirl. You were simply being uninformed. You're not a woman so you can't really speak from personal experience about the feelings our bodies experience. You can only speak from what you think you've seen and what you've been told. One of these days when you lose the false bravado, educate yourself on women, and quit lying to yourself, you're going to actually make some progress with women.

Sorry if I sound a bit harsh, but I think you're full of it. The other ladies will come along here and back me shortly.

[birdgirl73]

I think your so wrong there, thats really rude, i'm his girlfriend and i know EXACTLY what he's talking about, dont be so presumptious in the future.

just because you havent found the "right" one yet, or found someone knowing the "right" way to do it doesn't mean other people havent.

*sigh* the arrogance of some people is amasing.

I wasn't impugning you, so get off your high horse. You might want to read current sexual information yourself. You may be in the minority, and if so, great. I speak the truth about the majority of women.

[Tokingirl]

I wasn't impugning you, so get off your high horse. You might want to read current sexual information yourself. You may be in the minority, and if so, great. I speak the truth about the majority of women.

lol so you are speaking for the women of the world are you look who is on there high horse.

[birdgirl73]

No, Tokingirl. I'm speaking from the current teachings on human sexuality. You're speaking only from defensiveness.

Break with tradition sometime and do some reading. Or check out Sue Johansson's show if y'all get it over there.

[birdgirl73]

No. I banned Aeon for personal insults, which I've deleted. And now if you keep it up and are exhanging computers with TokinGirl I'll have to ban you both, which I don't want to do. You might want to let this drop since I'm the one with the ability to ban.

I don't ban for differences of opinion. I do for insults and disrespect.