Quote Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
ok c'mon guys, chip in here... we're trying to get a compiled list of actual 'rules' for operating us males :wtf: try to keep the comedy out of it, i want this serious.... (females could do the same if htey like)

one sex always seems to have problems understanding the other, so lets get a guide going... can be rules, input, anything... just to help the opposite understand us better.... what we need, what we want, what we mean... but like i said, keep the comedy to a minimum... (also note, it may not apply to every guy, but try to keep the postings to the general population of males..i.e. the majority share this trait)


i'll start.... deep down we do need the closeness, but nearly from birth we're conditioned to be non-feeling machines... the tact you apply needs to somehow coincide with both.... don't make it seem like we need you, rather, you need us... push for the closeness, but not to apoint of aggervation, and keep comments like "how come you never wanna be close" out, cuz i garuntee most of the time that leads to a fight, again, we were conditioned to need nothing but ourselves.... we can't actually answer that question without going against everything we know... we need you as much as you need us, we just aren't able to show it as easily. we may be the main pillar of strength in relationships, but we are still just as needy and vulnerable as you...
And the point of aggravation is right about the same time you wont shut your mouth. Women. Learn to shut up.