Littlewing screwed over again.

[Runaway Jim]

correct me if im wrong but weren't u the person that told me parents mean everything and own their kids and that the kids should fully respect and listen to wat the parents say? if that was u, then u sir are a dick. if not, sorry for wasting ur time

Well i dont remember saying that.
But the fact is, if his parents are nazis, he should continue to do what he does if the parents actions are extreme. Im not suggesting he disrespect his parents, and the rebel part was kind of a sarcastic joke.
My take on this is how i work with my mom, she knows the shit i do and kind of lets me do my thing as long as the essentials are being met, like passing school (its been a rough year), being the man of the house (aint easy), and having a job or some way of not having to bum money off of her. as long as its my money im spending on buds she doesnt interfere, she knows i smoke and theres a fan in my window. it works out pretty well, its amazing how things change, a year ago i coulda never imagined being allowed to smoke, but then again, i had 2 parents then.

[Reefer Rogue]

as for point number 2, freedom, rebeling same diffrence... tell me where freedom has EVER came from, without rebeling....

Freedom of choice, one does not have to rebel to choose his favourite ice cream cone from the local vendor.

[Not An Addict]

Nobody knows everything, everybody knows something.

Touche.

[LittLeWinG]

Ah thanks for all the advice.

and btw, i dont like bing called a dumbass and an idiot.

And let me straighten some things out.

I have only been smoking weed maybe.... once a month, and i hadnt smoked weed sine i last got caught. It was just bad fucking luck that my mum found my empty weed container in my bag... which i keep coz i have had it for a long time, sentimental value, you know.

The thing im upset with is that im being ridiculously restricted when really, i havnt been doing 'anything' wrong except for smoking a joint at a party everyonce in a while. Which, i actually havnt been doing.

and also for dad suddenly deciding im screwing up my life (which im not... im actually trying really hard to make something of myself)

Oh yeah, and i dont like being labeled a 'child' when in 4 months i will be an 'adult'. Doesn't make much sence to me, especially when the night mum found that box, dad tells me he he understands and that im not a kid anymore and he respects the decisions i make because apparently im pretty mature for my age. Personally i find this to be fucked up considering 24 hours later i get treated like a 13 year old who isnt old enough to make his own decisions.

I love my parents, and always will, but what they are doing is stupid.

Look, i'll leave it at this. Im a good person and i have very high morals. I just find this to be very degrading.

And btw, i hopeim not coming across as a whinging little teenager bitch, because im really not.

[CannabisCrooz]

his dad isn't the 'problem' his dad doesn't seem to give two squirts of piss

I am so fucking depressed about the whole ordeal, especially my dad turning from a cool understanding parent, who i can talk about anything too, to a total fucking nazi who thinks i have a massive drug problem.

erm

[stinkyattic]

this is roughly the 5th time ive been busted by my parents for this kind of thing.

This is going to sound harsh, but the 5th time?

Thank your parents... obviously you can't look after yourself. Imagine you being in the real world getting caught for the same thing 5 times... say hello to your new cellmate Max...

[geonagual]

You are not a criminal till you get caught. You just gotta learn to hide your shit better.

[Psycho4Bud]

Oh yeah, and i dont like being labeled a 'child' when in 4 months i will be an 'adult'.

So in 4 months your going to move out on your own, pay your own bills, etc.? There's alot more about becoming an adult than a birthdate. Not trying to be harsh with ya bro....just giving ya some advice. If I stay at a friend/ relatives house and I know that they aren't all good with the herb I either leave it at home or in my car just out of respect. I really think that's all your folks are looking for.

Have a good one!:jointsmile:

[napolitana869]

maybe you could talk your parents into drug testing you if they'll still let you go out with your friends. You said you dont smoke very often so it wouldnt be a big change for you and you're parents might trust you more.

[slipknotpsycho]

erm

lol sorry i must've missed that part o.0