super bummed!

[halfassedjediknight]

so my girlfriend is going into the peace corps again..not sure when, shes still in her last year of college. but i think after that shes going to apply and take off again forever. last time it was only three months in africa so it wasnt that bad, but now its probably 27 months to 5 years because of her college degrees, so im totally spazzing out and being a big baby.

i love my girlfriend more than anything. weve known each other since we were in like 4th grade. my mom has videos of me playing hockey when i was like 9 years old or something, saying how much i like this girl and bla bla.

now im wigging out because i dont know what im going to do..i have tons of school left, so ill be doing that, but what am i supposed to do? wait?

i have a feeling you will all say if you love her, you will wait..but is that really true? what about, if you love them set them free, and if they come back it was meant to be..am i supposed to look at it from that point of view? i dont know how im supposed to see it. i dont have any idea what will happen.

halfassedjediknight Reviewed by halfassedjediknight on 05-15-2007. super bummed! so my girlfriend is going into the peace corps again..not sure when, shes still in her last year of college. but i think after that shes going to apply and take off again forever. last time it was only three months in africa so it wasnt that bad, but now its probably 27 months to 5 years because of her college degrees, so im totally spazzing out and being a big baby. i love my girlfriend more than anything. weve known each other since we were in like 4th grade. my mom has videos of me Rating: 5

[Samwhore]

Hell no. Show her you love her NOW.

[halfassedjediknight]

thats all im doing. its just gonna feel weird being single again. its been freaking forever.

and im comfortable.

[slipknotpsycho]

i dunno dude that's kinda hard...

personally i think it'd be kinda fucked up of her to expect you to just wait up to 5 years for her to finally get back....

LDR's rarely work.... and i suspect a high ammount of the ones that do work, didn't actually work, the 'spouse' just never got caught 'cheating'..

[halfassedjediknight]

yeah i wont get caught dead in a long distance relationship. they dont work period.

i know she wouldnt expect me to. theres no way of really knowing if shed be gone 5 years until she got her assignment..but it would definately be a minimum of 2 years and 3 mo.'s and thats too long. ill almost be a doctor by then.

[slipknotpsycho]

well, i'd just say to end the relationship under the pretense you plan to rekindle the love when she's back...

unless she plans to take further assignments.... if this seems like it's goign to be her life (going and coming) i think it'd be just better for you overall to end it for good...

[MadSativa]

this is the story of my life, sorry bro. Do what you think is right, just remember when your both older how will you look back at this. I think we might have the same taste in women man we want em strong, confident, and on a mission. Thing that sucks is sometimes their mission takes em far away and never brings em back. If we are all lucky enough we will be old some day when that day comes you wana be happy and ready to die, no regretes and to know you did all that you could. Coars if your always ready to die then every day is to be fullfiled to its fullest. Stay strong man no matter what happensimp:

[halfassedjediknight]

yeah if this is gonna be her life, count me out because people like that always fly solo unless they get married..then you can get the same assignments and live together. but im already way into my schooling and i got my plans and all that. i could move around eventually if i wanted to, but im not gonna be constantly traveling as a doctor or anything.

ps madsativa is the man haha :thumbsup:

[MagicalHerb]

the peace corps is cool..
i guess joining with her was already ruled out?

[halfassedjediknight]

the peace corps is cool..
i guess joining with her was already ruled out?

i wouldnt be guaranteed to be assigned to the same job as her..or in other words, the same country that she would be in. theyre all over the world.

if we were married, we could be guaranteed this..but thats not for me. no sir not yet.