Im 22 and I have seen my sperm donor once and talked to him on the phone maybe 5 times. He ignored me for 22 years. I was his first born and he has 3 other kids, which he has always had contact with and does things with them and for them. Im lucky though cause my dad came into my life when I was 2. He got with my mom and took me in as his own and I would have never known the difference if they would have never told me. Friday night my sperm donors ex wife, I have had contact with her for 3 years, she tells me that my "father" wants me to call him. So on Saturday I called him. He couldnt quit apologizing, he told me that he has had many sleepless nights because of how he done his own child. He said he was afraid to call me because he thought that I hated him and would just have cussed him out and hung up on him. As it stands he is saying he wants to be a part of my life, and that he will call me every Sunday. I heard that once when I was like 16 and Sunday never came so we will see.