1. yes, they're lying

2. that's really an absolutely fine size; now forget about size and start learning how to make love like a champ there's a lot more than just having a big dick; don't let the porn skew your mind; guys with huge dicks slamming chicks is (contrary to popular belief; i'm ashamed i have to say that) not what women want for god's sake; generally. if you think that all women are like what the pornstars act like "craving huge cock", you're mislead. not that size doesn't matter at all, but there's so much involved in sex other than the size of your dick